Does this sound familiar?

Your ex-husband drops your kids off at home after keeping them for the weekend. After he has gone, you notice that the kids are wearing the same clothes that they had on two days ago and it looks like they haven't had a bath either. You casually ask them if they had fun, but they just shrug their shoulders. When you ask for details, the kids say that all they did was watch television while their dad stayed with his new girlfriend. You don't like the idea of your kids being left alone with nothing to do but watch TV. Did they have enough to eat? Did they bathe? Who was looking after them? How can you find out the answer to these questions?

After a separation, your kids will be going through a rough time, and you want to make it as easy as possible for them. It is important for them to have contact with and love from both parents.

However, if one parent is not holding up their end of the bargain when it comes to looking after the kids, something has to be done. Allow your children to express their feelings in a constructive manner, but don't make them spies or pressure them to reveal all the details of your ex-spouse's new life.

In order to protect your children and insure their safety, leave them out of the battle. For your peace of mind, let 123Pi find out the facts. Contact us to discuss this matter further.